In my home country the custom is for the man's family to pay the woman's family, and they also have to pay for the wedding, buy a house for the couple, etc. I'm not sure what that's called in English. I find it problematic either way the money/gifts go - it sets up the relationship as transactional, which is ripe for abuse.AITA- Husband broke something of mine- I think he should pay for it. My husband got me a diecast motorbike about 6 years ago of my favourite motorbike. It was lovingly looked after on my desk at my old job and then again when I went to working from home. In January, I managed to knock it off of its shelf and I was absolutely gutted.Husband: "How dare you, you piece of shit, we will figure it out, I will pull money out of my ass, because this is how the world works". AITA: close your legs for once, you whore, Christmas is a human right, it is literally children abuse to not have Christmas.Nah you made an assumption it was wrong. Unless you specifically stated you would not have kids with him then he’s not wrong to assume that’s on the cards. If you were positive you were never going to have more kids I’m confused why you wouldn’t have that conversation before marriage.My girlfriend and I decided that we're going to take a break. I was trying to not let the outside influences influence me but I noticed she ordered a lot more food than she usually does and didn't even take a bite of some of it. Her excuse was "you're fine, it was only $150 for both of us.". That was my eye opener.My wife was ordered to go to anger management, therapy, and parenting classes. Ava was brought back to us 3 times but every time she was brought back she'd run away or raise hell until she got to stay with her aunt. My wife's sister got full custody because of that. My wife has been trying to fix her relationship with Ava since the incident.My MIL gave my now-husband a creepy clown doll when he moved. (We're not sure why, she keeps a lot of flea-market items that might be useful some day.) But this clown doll became a big joke between us where he'd try to "scare" me with it. eventually, our two Labrador puppies mysteriously got ahold of it and they played tug-of-war with ...My parents are also divorced and growing up my father was also a musician. Nothing super famous but he would play gigs all over the state and would also sometimes go to other states to play. However, he never once missed an important milestone of mine. Not even when I had my little elementary school "graduation".Having the account is good. But you need to communicate with your husband! If he bothers you until you give in on financial questions, that also is a topic to confront with your husband. Apart from that, if you keep some of your money back from the joint account, he should be able to do the same.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) Refusing to accommodate sister and her husband (2) "Ruining" their Christmas. Help keep the sub engaging!If they do they lose the business. The business is your kids and that's it. Your husband's kids can't change their mind because now they want your money and business. It should rightfully go to your kids. Make sure your will is tight. If your kids give into step siblings then everyone loses. Then the business goes to charity.Recently my stepdaughter and her mom have been going through rough times. Her mom had another child with her new husband, at one point my stepdaughter and her mom had such a bad fight that her mom attempted to end parental rights. Even if this were to occur, I couldn't imagine trying to replace her mom.My ex husband was cheating on me during my entire pregnancy and treated me exactly like OP's husband is treating her. We had a healthy sex life during the entire pregnancy, but he was cheating with someone from work. He knew I'd be occupied at the doctor's office and took advantage. His friends lied for him.ADMIN MOD. UPDATE - AITA for telling my husband his "fragile masculinity" is costing us money? Previous Post. Craig and I were able to put the issue regarding the Mercedes behind us, and for the past week, we've been working towards finding a replacement. He was still leaning towards an SUV, and while I considered his opinion, it was ...throwaway-36928. AITA for telling my ex his lack of money is not my issue? Not the A-hole. I (36F) have a daughter Sadie (12) with my ex-husband John (39). We got divorced 5 years ago and I have primary custody while he sees her two weekends a month. Last year, he got married to Amanda who has sole custody of her kids (10&8F) from a previous ...AITA for telling my husband everything, even when my children ask me not to. I (46F) tell my husband (57M) everything. We prefer to be open and honest with each other and enjoy this aspect of our relationship. This includes things our four children tell us individually, as we care about our children and want to help them together as partners.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I’ve asked my husband to pay for something of mine that he broke. He doesn’t feel that he should because it was an accident. Am I the arsehole in expecting him to give me the money for something that wasn’t cheap. Help keep the sub engaging!My kids have more time to study and do extracurriculars. They still have chores and they are still expected to clean up after themselves. My husband came to me last time I was home and said we should cut back on the service when I'm home. That I should be doing more housework. He thinks that we are wasting money.AITA? His mom has been blowing up my phone with texts, trying to plead her case and I just texted back and said "no, it's fine, you won. Now you can have your baby boy back full time." And blocked her number. My friends think I'm wildly overreacting. ETA: sorry for confusion, I call him "my husband" by habit and have since before we got engaged.AITA for telling my step-kids that the house is mine, your father left it to me and you are never getting it. I’m using step-kids to make it clearer. My husband passed away, I married him when his kids were all adults. They have never been nice to me since they see my husband replacing his late wife. Tbh it has been a shit show with them.The $15,000 she wants is lot of money. Your mom marrying a man who does not respect you and ignores your requests to stop is not someone you want around you & your family. This is just another story of a weak woman putting a bad man above her family. Don’t give mom a penny for her wedding. Stand your ground OP!I guess my pain and my marriage just isn't important. He now is on board with divorce since I hurt his "friend. So reddit, AITA for 1. Being angry my husband is texting I love you's to another woman 2. Demanding he cease contact with this woman and 3. informing her husband of their private messages. -broken.My grandma took me to get ice cream and I explained everything. What happened in my last post as well as everything else that's been going on this past year. She agrees with a lot of you guys that my mom is probably being abused and needs help. We're looking into options for groups and stuff that'll help her out, though my grandma's doing most ...NTA. I am mad for you. What a shitty bunch of in-laws, and I include your husband in that. Your kid, HIS kid, THEIR grandkid depends on you for food, so besides being a major fuckwattle to you, they're hurting their own blood as well, for apparently no reason whatsoever. It's time for your husband to stand up for you.A few days later (because I did not want to ruin Mother's Day) I told my wife that I am tired of raising Harper, her real father needs to step up. I tired of it taking away time I get to spend with Emma. She said that Jennifer is her best friend and we need to be there for Harper. Now she is not speaking to me and sleeping in the guest bedroom.ADMIN MOD. UPDATE - AITA for telling my husband his "fragile masculinity" is costing us money? Previous Post. Craig and I were able to put the issue regarding the Mercedes behind us, and for the past week, we've been working towards finding a replacement. He was still leaning towards an SUV, and while I considered his opinion, it was ...My husband insists that it should be only 4 hours (in the morning) so we would have to pay less. And since “I have been so great at taking care of everything” I will manage to do it by my own in the afternoons, he also does not want anyone else cooking for him or cleaning our bedroom, it has to be me; and then it turned into a big ...Dad is taken aback by his ex-wife requesting financial support for her new husband and family, after openly admitting to him that she had remained married to him for three years just for his money. “AITA For …Throwaway account. So me (26f) and my husband (28m), who I'll call "Jake" for this story, have been together for 5 years and married for 3. We have recently started trying for a baby as we both felt like that was the next step in our life together, and 3 weeks ago I got a positive test back.After we arrived to the hotel, They arranged to visit a fancy restaurant for dinner, My husband avoid telling me and I learned it last minute after he had already got dressed. I asked where he was going and he said he & family were going to eat out but I wasn't invited because his mom "assumed" that since I wouldn't be familiar with the food ...Baby #3 has heart problems. My husband said every time he went to lay him down the oxygen monitor would go off. The thing is Husband didn’t figure out was baby #3 hates anything on his face. So you have to rock him to sleep then carefully put the oxygen on his nose. My aunt said that my husband called her the first night around midnight.I lost it again. Yelling, I looked at my sister-in-law telling her; How dare she use my nursery, for my baby, how dare she think she has the right. What she told me, made me fall to my knees sobbing. "It's not my fault you couldn't produce a …AITA for telling my sister it's "gold digging money" she's borrowing from me. Not in the US ... Now, I do have the amount of money Sarah needs. My husband heads his family company and gives me spending money every month in addition to a credit card he takes care of. I don't work—my days are spent looking after our two sons and, for ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband he can't drive? Not the A-hole. On Valentine's Day my husband took the car we are borrowing without asking, after we had agreed that he wouldn't drive this car unless it was an emergency. I was furious when he got home, and we got into an argument because he didn't think it was a big deal and I ...AITA for telling my son that we don't really have any room for him right now so he needs to live with his dad and stepmom. My ex-husband and I divorced when my son was ten. My ex had found someone new. We went for 50/50 custody but he still had to pay some child support. I went back to school at that time.My (42F) ex husband (45M) and I were together for 20 years. We had a beautiful daughter together, Joceline (14F). We got a divorce 5 years ago due to infidelity on his part. I was devastated. He was the love of my life and he betrayed all of the trust and loyalty we had built up. To make matters worse, he ended up in a relationship with the ...I looked at the $100 and told her I wanted a replacement coat or the amount it currently cost so that I can buy a new one and that $100 won’t cover it. She said he went to the store and it cost $700 now but she knew I only paid $100 for it so she told him $100 would cover the cost. I argued that $100 doesn’t buy me a new coat.NTA. I am mad for you. What a shitty bunch of in-laws, and I include your husband in that. Your kid, HIS kid, THEIR grandkid depends on you for food, so besides being a major fuckwattle to you, they're hurting their own blood as well, for apparently no reason whatsoever. It's time for your husband to stand up for you.1.) Telling my husband he was being selfish by buying tickets to his favorite band during the week I was planning a vacation for us for my 30th birthday. 2.) I should just be happy he got me a ticket to come with him and "share the experience". Help keep the sub engaging!If your husband looks at what he inherited as family money, then Tina has already received her share and it would not make sense for her to get a double dip out of that pool. Instead, he could acknowledge her through legacies that are more sentimental. However, if your husband considers this his money then he should look towards his financial ...The route of "tell my husband to quit his longstanding family activity or get 3 working adults to change a long-fixed schedule" is pretty bold. But when you boil down the root cause to "a 9 year old doesn't like being around their step-siblings", that family need to work that out with those kids.AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? (r/AmITheAsshole)Source: Zealousideal_Fly4786 on Reddit (link removed because YouTube keeps dinging me for lin...Mansplaining - Wikipedia. 21 August 2013 - Mansplaining (a blend word of man and the informal form splaining of the gerund explaining) is a pejorative term meaning " (for a man) to comment on or explain something, to a woman, in a condescending, overconfident, and often inaccurate or oversimplified manner".Well, you're being sensitive. Learn to take a joke hun.". In all reality, they should get couple therapy so husband can stfu and learn that he's being condescending and disrespectful and to also learn that there's no such thing as someone else emasculating him. He does that himself by being a prick. 3.7K.When my husband and I got married we thought it was only fair to share the college fund even though my ex husbands mother was the one who created it. Kinda like here we consider you family type of thing. My daughter was more furious with me that I was already talking about this while my mother is still alive.When her brother needed help, it's I who gave him money. Why? Because they are MY in-laws, and he's MY brother-in-law. I think it's my responsibility to look after their parents. She thinks it's her responsibility to look after mine in another way. It's absolutely NOT one-sided on my part. My wife Lisa and I have been together for a while.1.2K Likes, 25 Comments. TikTok video from stories.lucy (@aitastories_lucy): “Replying to @stories.lucy AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? #AITA #question #reddit #redditstories #reddit_tiktok #storytime #story #fyp #foryou #game”. aita for always getting a separate bill update. original sound - stories.lucy.If wife isn't earning money, she needs to stop acting like husband's income is disposable. If she wants to help her sister she really should consider getting back to work. Supporting a family of 3 on one income is hard enough without another grown dependent in the mix.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.But make your husband deal with his mother. Make it clear that the standard he ignores is that standard he accepts, and even though he normally stands up for you, it's time that he stopped the disrespect entirely. Standing up to her hasn't done anything, she's racist and she's escalating her provocative behaviour.AITA for telling my neighbor no? Not the A-hole. My husband (20M) & I (20F) live next to another couple in their early 20s who just recently had a baby. We've lived next to them for the past six months and at first we were neighborly with them. About a month of being neighborly with them, they started asking us for favors every two weeks, and ...Inheritance isn't marital property. But you need to be straight up with him and tell him he isn't going to have access to it. You're gonna have to have enough spine to put your foot down. If he doesn't like it let him leave because it doesn't sound like he's contributing anything. Edit.Because of this my husband convinced himself I make them with “fake” milk/butter/whatever, and says they taste “off,” when I’m literally just following package directions and making the standard Ghirardelli dark chocolate brownies from the box. People really do get in their heads about this ish.I got married to my husband Cael last year and now we're expecting a girl. My parents brought up how amazing it would be for us to name our daughter Summer and my husband was 100% on board. He was pretty much agreeing before I had a chance to react. When I did talk to him he was shocked I had any doubts and was ready to go full steam ahead.AITA for not wanting to give up my college fund to pay for my younger brother's treatment. The treatment could possibly improve my brother's quality of life and or save his live altogether, and I can fund it, but I don't want to. As a result my dad and his wife think I'm TA. Help keep the sub engaging!We were at a small house party with a few friends of mine from college and we were discussing books we've all read, when at one point one of my friends (let's call him Steve) asks Will, "So Will, what's your favorite book?" and my husband responds, "Oh, I really like To Kill A Mockingbird.". Then Steve gives him a quizzical look ...When your husband tells you to calm down, maybe you should listen. Eek. Just saying that was painful. And I’m sure I just majorly violated girl code. Fudge. Well, I&r...AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? (r/AmITheAsshole)Source: Zealousideal_Fly4786 on Reddit (link removed because YouTube keeps dinging me for lin.... Ever since then my half sister has been asking questions about it and Growing your crypto wallet balance usually i AITA for telling my husband to stop spending so much money on his dead girlfriend’s younger sister? I (28F) have been with my husband (34M) for almost a decade. We have three children (6F, 3M, 2F) together, and we are currently expecting our fourth child. He is an amazing father to our kids and I couldn't ask for a better husband.But nope. Not you. You could have told your husband, “Eew. Yuck. You are sick,” and kicked him to the curb and gathered your wounded bird to your bosom and vowed to protect her. But nope, not you. YTA for destroying your daughter’s life with your piss poor parenting and self-involved behavior. Reply reply. My answer: NTA. ""My brother w Sounds like you are better off on your own I am sorry to hear he put his mother first, just a mummies boy I guess best to get out now or you wont know what she is up to behind your back.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my “brother” if his kids go hungry that’s his problem not mine. Not the A-hole. Throwaway My English is a work in progress so just a warning. I’ll call my “brother” mike and my ex Tammy. 10 years ago my than fiancé left me at the alter (most humiliating thing I’ve ever been through) and went on our ... We all go through phases and pick up annoyi...
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