Yup, when it comes to selling heirlooms and sentimental items family has right of first refusal at a reasonable price. YTA. Reply reply. dr-sparkle. •• Edited. A reasonable price for a used grand piano could easily be $100,000, depending on the piano. A "low end" could be over $10,000 used.Dusty Thunder covers r/AITA (and other Reddit stories) and provides reactions to each story.https://linktr.ee/dustythunderhttps://www.dusty-thunder.com/AITA ...Reddit Stories - AITA for selling the house my brother and his family live in? | house, RedditYour sister was clear, box her stuff up, and she'd come get it. A straightforward and simple request. One you ignored but had no issue with going through her stuff, doing research on it, and then selling out from under her. If she wanted to sell anything, she would've after she picked the stuff up and went through it.op=NTA. This is a premarital asset--if you sell and invest in new house, it becomes a joint asset, if you put the profit from a sale into the house--it becomes a marital asset. DO NOT DO THIS, also just to be safe in case your jurisdiction has other rules that could make it a joint asset get a Prenup.op=NTA. This is a premarital asset--if you sell and invest in new house, it becomes a joint asset, if you put the profit from a sale into the house--it becomes a marital asset. DO NOT DO THIS, also just to be safe in case your jurisdiction has other rules that could make it a joint asset get a Prenup.18K votes, 491 comments. true. I'm indigenous. The original meaning of blood is that since every living thing bleeds, we are all the same.. Blood is red, and represents one of the four Holy Grandmothers - JuekesAahkkaa - the grandmother of hunting and sharing equally.. Green is for our Holy Grandmother MaadterAahkkaa, the grandmother world tree, grandmother earth.AITA For Telling All Of My Friends And Family Why My Vaction Home Limits Now Unless They Rent It Author admin Posted on February 15, 2024 February 15, 2024 Categories AITA Post navigationBringing a new pet into the home can be an exciting and rewarding experience, but it also requires some preparation to ensure that your home and family are ready for the new arriva...AITA for buying stuff for me instead of helping my family. I (14F) am a dancer. I am unfortunately unable to go to classes very often because of my families financial needs. (I am very grateful that I am able to even participate in dance) When I had just turned 14, I began working at an ice cream shop to save money for equipment: a barre, leo ...Your SIL need to figure out her own budget and wedding - if all the wedding dressed are too expensive then she either needs to get realistic or she can ask her own mother about sewing a dress. I would suggest going LC with her because she doesn't respect you. Keep your dress as an heirloom for your own family.Context and a very short version- when I was 17 I was in a relationship with my twin brothers best friend Jake it lasted 8 years till we were all finished collage and my ex had gotten enough money off his extremely religious parents to get a head start in life If you don't know were this is going my brother and Jake were together the whole time and used me as a cover because my feelings didn ...Seriously I have the 5 pack of Blink cameras, you can get them on Amazon for $320 and they're completely wireless. They're not perfect, and you need specifically AA Lithium batteries for them, but even with small kids running in and out often, mine typically last a few months before needing new batteries and they warn you ahead of time the battery is low.AITA for telling my parents I was going to sell the property we all live on. Not the A-hole. A little bit of a backstory back in 2018 , my dad came up to me with a proposition that he would help me and my husband buy a house with his retirement money and then when he got his final check, he would pay it off as long as we bought the house and ...My wife (38F) and I (39M) have been married for 12 years and have 3 kids (10, & 7-year-old twins). About 8-months ago, my wife's sister Ann (29F) went through a pretty traumatic time. She found out she was pregnant with her long-time BF of 6 years. It wasn't planned, but that didn't lessen the heartbreak when she lost the pregnancy at 10-weeks.My family is from South Asia but we live in the States. My parents loved my older brother and tolerated me. They expected me to just stay home and take care of them and my brother. That wasn't for me. I got a partial scholarship to a state school and GTFO. I worked the four years of my undergrad and was fortunate enough to get a full ...I could no longer take it and broke up with him. Now he is telling me to sell the house and give him half. He feels like I owe it to him since we have been together for 16 years. I told him I won't because I was the one who came up with the down payment, remodeled the home, and I have been paying the mortgage on my own.Just mentioning. Also, I wish more AITAnians understood the simple fact that even if your finances are separate, restricting your spouse's access to money that legally belongs to them is abusive and illegal. If you're not happy with your wife's spending habits, divorce her, but don't financially abuse her.ADMIN MOD. AITA for offering to sell my house to my son and not my daughter? Asshole. My husband and I have 4 kids, Henry (35m), Lisa (33f), Elizabeth (30f), and Shawn (28m). We bought a 6 bed/7 bath house for next to nothing before Henry was born. Now that all of our kids have moved out, we decided to sell our house and buy a condo on the beach.Yes OP decided to cut him off after 3 years of being shown they were at best 4th or lower priority in their dad's life - after dad's wife, dad's new kids, wife's job, dad's job then maybe OP and her sister. OP's sister is welcome to have whatever relationship with her father.NTA or even better YTH (your the hero), because this emergency move in was just his way of trapping you and you avoided it and gave him his consequences for f-ing around. Selling the house without warning was the best move in this case, he was really financially abusing you. You definitely deserve love and respect.Family or not, your great-grandmother's will was/is a legally binding document that they should've upheld, so taking them to court isn't wrong. If that's how you're able to get your inheritance then so be it. NTA...at all. Reply reply. Georgia_girl_52. •. Sadly, this is the reason the family is mad at OP.OP says in comments that it’s a four-month break (summer). I can see wanting to completely clear out before being away for that long, because it’s enough time that you can’t be totally sure something won’t happen to derail your plans to come back, or change the situation you’d be coming back to (landlord terminates the lease while you’re gone, one of your roommates suddenly leaves ...Not the A-hole. About 20 years ago I purchased a family home due to a grandparents illness. The home needed to be sold for insurance purposes (insurance wouldn't cover if grandparents had any assets). So my parents asked if I would purchase it. At the time I was renting an apartment and agreed to purchase the house since the payment would be ...My family is Asian while my future SIL is white. I don't have a problem with interracial relationships as we have several members of our extended family who married other races. In fact, I'm currently in a serious relationship with a woman who is also white. My GF is wonderful and loves trying new things that my culture has to offer.7 years ago I was married and expecting a baby when things went horribly wrong. Around 10 weeks into my pregnancy I suffered a miscarriage and then I returned home to find my husband in bed with my sister. The two of them tried to apologize and convince me that we could all get over it.And don't worry; sometimes it really does take another perspective to realize how bad things are, especially when the decline has been gradual. It's what you do when presented with the situation for what it is that's important. Good for you for taking back control of your life and happiness! :) 2. nohorsethrow.I 34 f own 2 properties one my family and I live in and the other is supposed to be an income property. In 2020 my mother, stepfather, and one of my siblings moved into my other property. They lived in the house for a year rent free as they were fixing minor things in the house. September of 2021 I asked them if they could pay $300 a month to ...It is no longer a 'family home'. You used your money to purchase and renovate it. You need to make this clear to your family that it is not a vacation home for them to use. For all intents and purposes it is a 'venue' for those who rent it out for party weekends etc. I agree that you could offer them a discount for that weekend.Fast forward a few months and I leave my job working away and I take a position closer to my home town and I being up to my family that I’d like to rent the house if they were done with it only to learn that my brother and his wife have decided to sell theirs (very nice) house 10 minutes away in order to move into this one while they used the ...AITA for telling my sister she has to move? I (25f) own my moms old house. When she died 5 years ago my two siblings and I inherited it equally, but it was not fully paid off and in order to close out the estate it needed to be sold. I had the money and was emotionally attached to the home, so I bought out my siblings and own it outright now.Recently Blair sold her house and moved into a smaller home sort of setup with her sister. She asked me to move in with her and here is the part where I messed up. She didn't tell me that she moved houses so I agreed thinking I could just live in her big beach house. I went ahead and sold my nice suburban family home of two stories.Owner is not allowed to break the lease, only the tenant is. Of course an owner can agree with the tenant to break the lease for a price, but it's still 100% up to the tenant to accept the offer to break the lease. Selling the property doesnt break the lease either. New owner has to take over the existing contract.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Making my ex husband sell his childhood home 2) he wasn't fit to live on his own and cannot take care of himself. Help keep the sub engaging!AITA for selling a family heirloom to pay for my destination wedding? My fiancée (38F) and I (39M) are planning to get married this summer. We both want to have quite a lavish wedding at a winery in another state. The two of us agree that it's the most important occasion in our lives, so we should make it as memorable as possible.Not the A-hole. Where I'm at currently. I'm not talking to my parents or brother because my parents helped my brother steal my bike and take it back to AZ with him. They say I'm overreacting. Background: my brother wanted a bike like mine but couldn't afford it (I had a Giant). My parents approached me and asked me to give my bike to my ...I (47M) inherited a property from my father 11 years ago. For the past five years I've been renting the house to a nice family with a young child (5M). They've been great tenants and there haven't been any issues. A month ago I was approached by a realtor about selling my property.My late husband (passed away in 2013) was a classic car guy. He bought and sold them since he was a teenager as a hobby. After he passed away, I kept his favorite car. My brother in law would come by and maintain it for us and sometimes take it to shows. My son would often go with his uncle to shows and when my son got his license he was ...AITA for not letting my family use my home to party. Not the A-hole. So I invited my family to spend Christmas morning at my house. It’s common knowledge within my family that my family (husband /26 and daughter /4) spend Christmas afternoon over at my in laws house and Christmas evening is spent as just us three.TikTok video from aita (@aitaonreddit_): “AITA for wanting to sell our family home to a stranger even though my half sister will buy it from me to keep it in the family? …And don't worry; sometimes it really does take another perspective to realize how bad things are, especially when the decline has been gradual. It's what you do when presented with the situation for what it is that's important. Good for you for taking back control of your life and happiness! :) 2. nohorsethrow.AITA for selling the family heirloom of a stranger, and dodging a request to share the profits? awards My mother 'S' retired a couple years ago, and has taken up flipping things on eBay or DePop as a hobby. She does not do this with the intent to hit it big, she just enjoys the hunt and running into cool pieces. Usually she finds these things ...Over the last couple of years, my family (i.e. my mother and sister) has been under financial duress and have been pleading to me to sell my house because I "don't need it". And they're technically right: I don't utilize this space. It's just my dog and I. I haven't set foot in some rooms in months.I come from a rich family. I just married a woman whose mother has crippling debts to pay. My wife's mother is great. Not only is she a handcrafter (which automatically makes her a saint, obviously), but she is also one of the good poors - you know, the type who silently takes abuse from everyone and sacrifices everything, even her own dignity, for the sake of her children.grandmascakes. AITA for 'selling out' on my Grandma's secret recipe? Not the A-hole. My Grandma was a wonderful baker, and had a secret cake recipe that she had created herself. It used some very uncommon spice combinations in the cake and frosting that produced a very unique but delicious cake. She would always make it for our big family ...If you're new to the AITA world, it's a popular subreddit where users ask — you guessed it — if they're assholes. Tap to play GIF. ABC. Today we are talking about a quite interesting situation ...AITA for not wanting to sell my house and give money back to in-laws. My wife and I purchased a lovely home summer 2022 and did so the usual way with roughly 20% down and a 30-yr mortgage. Financially, we were surviving and making our monthly payments; everything was OK. My wife's non-American (Non US-based) parents, especially her mother, are ...This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. Read this before contacting the mod team. My wife and I recently decided to sell a rental property we have. We have no retirement and I am now disabled and can't work. We have 7 ...The issue comes in that the approximate value of what his 4 siblings would inherit is roughly equal to the value of two homes my dad owns in the country they live in. Currently my older uncle (+ his family), and my aunt (+ her family) live in those properties. They live there free of charge until now.The way the post is written, it sounds like OP is selling the house just to get herself away from her family not because she actually wants to part with her dad's house. If that's the case, she needs to find a way to get some breathing room and figure out what she really wants to do.Commercial-Tailor-29. ADMIN. AITA for not letting my brother's family live on my property? Not the A-hole. My brother (55M) and I (53M) grew up on a working ranch. My brother wasn't interested in helping around the ranch and told my parents that if he was given the ranch, he would sell the entire property. My brother stored a ton of junk in one ...I completely get where OP was coming from. OP, you know you messed up. Your fiancé is your real chosen family. Apologize for your indiscretion; I'm sure he understands why you felt the need to go there. Soft YTA. I am low contact with my dad, sounds like a good option for you and your family as well.My wife was happy and the atmosphere wasn't suffocating. Everyone remarked how happy we were. Kayla wanted to come back for Thanksgiving. When my wife heard, she threw up. she said she was too weak to deal with Kayla anymore. I told my wife I'd arrange for a short hotel stay for the four days Kayla would be home. She was grateful.Selling the marital house without even mentioning it to his wife was a dick move. Yes, it's his sole asset and he had a right to sell it but to say nothing at all to his wife of many years is just ridiculous. He's an AH and a devil! 4. dragonessofages. • 8 mo. ago. Look, darling, the rich are at it again.My mother immediately decided that she wanted to arrange a vegetable garden in the yard of this house. My husband's sister said it would be a great place where she could take her children for the summer. My sister started fantasizing about family picnics. My husband's brother "joked" that it would be a good place to get drunk on weekends.They had me when they were both 20 and my mom was the primary bread-winner of the family while my dad became SAHD. Sarah (my stepmother) was actually our neighbor and I was around 8 when the cheating happened. My mother and my father separated and there was no bad blood between them with my mom getting the majority of custody.Five siblings to discuss the house, we all have to agree. I said sell it. Three siblings wanted to keep it for family gatherings. On sibling said her husband had borrowed $16,000 to put toward the balance and would make payments til it was paid off. I said sell it, there's upkeep and utilities and taxes to be paid.Just be calm and say, “You always break my things when borrowing them and don’t offer to repair or replace the items. I will no longer loan you my things.”. Repeat as necessary in a calm voice. They can get mad all they want, they’re still in the wrong. wwolffstarr.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I suggested to my wife that I skip spending Xmas with her family this year to stay home by myself.You own 1/3 of the house. If they force the sale then you are legally entitled to 1/3 as well as every thing else that belonged to your parents. If the other two want to spit their 2/3's with Ben let them. It's time to lawyer up and let the courts handle things as was written in the will. 1.Asshole. This is a throwaway and I'm using fake names. I am 26F and my "adopted sister" Ally is 14F. The way we're "related" is that my younger brother Michael (24M) has been with his wife Maya (24F) since their freshman year of high school. Maya and Ally had a really bad home life and my mom is very much a "my home is open to everyone" type of ...NTA has long as you tell them in general you are leaving so they don't think you are missing and waste police resources. But FYI - a lot of states have online records for home ownership so I suggest talking to your re lawyer about owning your home through an LLC.AITA for not letting my family use my home to party. Not the A-hole. So I invited my family to spend Christmas morning at my house. It’s common knowledge within my family that my family (husband /26 and daughter /4) spend Christmas afternoon over at my in laws house and Christmas evening is spent as just us three.I told my wife I’d arrange for a short hotel stay for the four days Kayla would be home. She was grateful. Kayla came home and it was okay. She asked me where mom was and I said she was at a hotel. Kayla asked why she would be there instead of helping out the family and I snapped and said Kayla being home traumatizes my wife. I said that it ...My mom used to tell my sisters and me don't start a fight if you can't finish it. Meaning don't start something if you can't take it. Your mom started the fight and you finished it, she just couldn't take what she started. Edit: my sisters and I were always provoking each other and complaining about the retaliation after it.Regardless, selling the cottage would be a huge blow to the rest of the family. The cottage has been in their family since at least the 80's and is in a very beautiful lakeside location, which makes up for the small size and poor build of the cottage itself.AITA for selling a family heirloom to pay for my destination wedding? Asshole. My fiancée (38F) and I (39M) are planning to get married this summer. We both want to have quite a lavish wedding at a winery in another state. The two of us agree that it's the most important occasion in our lives, so we should make it as memorable as possible.I sent my kids to my family (as I planned to spend the Holidays away) after the school semester was done and he only talked about using my kid’s bedrooms for his family. I didn’t agree. Also, I was very uncomfortable leaving for Xmas and letting his family take over the house. The house was sold, and I didn’t tell him because he would ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for offering to sell my house to my son and not my daughter? Asshole. My husband and I have 4 kids, Henry (35m), Lisa (33f), Elizabeth (30f), and Shawn (28m). We bought a 6 bed/7 bath house for next to nothing before Henry was born. Now that all of our kids have moved out, we decided to sell our house and buy a condo on the beach.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I suggested to my wife that I skip spending Xmas with her family this year to stay home by myself.AITA for Selling the House My Daughter Lived in Rent-Free, Despite Her Upgrades? - YouTube. @noticeablestories-b87Z. AITA for Refusing to Lie About My …I pressed charges against her at the insistence of everyone and then after my dad got his time with me in the summer, he dropped me off at my boyfriend's house. Then he applied for full custody of me, won it default as she didn't show up, and they all let me live with my boyfriend's family. This was also before my senior year of high-school.They tell me to leave their house. I lost it, and told them that they had 30 days to get out. Tell my son I'm selling the house and he could find somewhere else to live with all of you. I go to a realtor in town and list the house for sale. They call my son at work and tell him what I said. Apparently they thought that he owned the house. He ...In high school, I dated one of my sister's friends. It was a small town. This was inevitable as it was either one of her friends, one of her enemies, or age inappropriate. It got real serious in the talking marriage and life plans way. We dreamed of taking over the family home to have our own family and my parents retiring to Florida.Recently, my boss helped me out and bought a cheapy car for me as my old one was becoming unsafe. When my bf had a job, the plan was to give it to him, but then he lost his job. We had talked about it, and he told me to go ahead and sell it because we need the money (it’s only valued at $1400, so not a big gain or anything but very needed).AITA for telling my husband I will only sell our tv to my parents. me and my husband are moving out of our home country in 3 weeks. We are selling our stuff because we don't plan to go back in a long time. Some things that we are selling is a tv that's like new we've only had it for about 4 months.AITA if I sell my youngest daughter's car to help cover my oldest's tuition? 5.1K upvotes · 5K comments. 2.Commercial-Tailor-29. ADMIN. AITA for not letting my brother's family live on my property? Not the A-hole. My brother (55M) and I (53M) grew up on a working ranch. My brother wasn't interested in helping around the ranch and told my parents that if he was given the ranch, he would sell the entire property. My brother stored a ton of junk in one ...op=NTA. This is a premarital asset--if you sell and invest in new house, it becomes a joint asset, if you put the profit from a sale into the house--it becomes a marital asset. DO NOT DO THIS, also just to be safe in case your jurisdiction has other rules that could make it a joint asset get a Prenup.AITA for not letting owner of the house I'm buying stay another month. Not the A-hole. My partner (29m) and I (29f) started looking for a house since last November (2022). In December, we finally found a home big enough for our growing family (two boys 2y and now 3m, and 2 dogs) with land that accommodates our 5 vehicles.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My mom was just trying to get some money to support our family. I think was an asshole for overreacting to it. I could have handled it better.Selling my PC out from under me if a good excuse came along is something she might have considered. If she convinced herself it was for my own good, yeah. ... Oh I wouldn't say that she turned my family against me, so far I have only gotten a call from my uncle saying that he does feel sorry for me, he offered to give me 3k from his own money ...MOD. AITA for moving my family and making my in-laws homeless. Not the A-hole. I (33M) am married to my wife (30F) and live in the home we bought when I was stationed near her home town (I am military). When we moved we let my MIL (40sF) and FIL (40sM) moved in to make things easier on is and get them out of a terrible living situation.AITA for wanting to sell our family home to a stranger even though my half sister will buy it from me to keep it in the family? I 30F am estranged from my dad John. He had an affair when I was 9 and kicked me and my mom out the house when his girlfriend got pregnant with my half sister Jade 21F.She was wrong when you told her not to confront them but YOU should’ve said something to your family since it’s been almost 6years of treating your child like an after thought. What would’ve been the harm in asking your family to celebrate your son thi …Selling a home can be a stressful and time-consuming process, but there are some tips and tricks that can help you get the job done quickly. Here are some of the fastest ways to se.... AITA for selling the house my brother and his family live in. : r/AmIAnd she’s livid I refuse to sell it to he My GF commented on my mom’s necklace to which my mom answered that she already picked out the style for my GF’s jewelry set when we get married. In our tradition, the family of the groom gifts their new DIL a necklace, earrings, and another piece of jewelry during the morning event on the wedding day. This set usually cost $40-50k in my family tradition.Yeah, OP's not the AH for wanting to keep the house in the family, but is definitely the AH for the favoritism and treatment of the one son. If all the kid wanted was 30% of the value of the house then the other son could have taken out a loan for that amount and still ended up with the house at an amazing value with everyone happy. OP NTA, it's your home so your parents have absolutely no say w Some years I've spent $20k in repairs and upkeep. $5.5k seems like a good average across my like 6 years in my house. That would be $2,750 owed in on average. Congrats, you've either broken even or owe more. In my scenario someone would owe in another $851 and get nothing back in this "equity" building time. My dad doesn't know he's internet fam...
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