My niece and nephew are 1 and 4 years old. I struggle to interact with them, I just freeze up and can't really say anything. I'm generally like this with everyone, people have to initiate conversation with me first for me to respond and in these situations I can mask okay, but not for long periods of time. As kids generally need you to approach ...N-exactly-TAH, is my initial impression, but this is a very complicated situation. First, and most importantly, I am very sorry for this tremendous loss that you and your family are experiencing. I am further sorry for the years of stress that your family has surely experienced from your sister’s behavior.dishonestpup. AITA for not taking my niece to school? Not the A-hole. Since the beginning of August, I've been taking my niece (5yo) to Kindergarden 2-3 times per week because my sister starts work at 6 and niece doesn't get dropped off until 7:30. I wake up at 5:15AM to get ready and drive over to my sister's house.ADMIN. AITA for not giving my parents money. Not the A-hole. My (34M) parents (59,61) live a gluttonous lifestyle. They are both morbidly obese and have been for years. They know how unhealthy it is as their doctor has been telling them they need to lose weight since I was a kid. They don't care. In their words, they'd rather live a happy life ...ETA: Yes, this is a normal expense for parents BUT lower cost camps fill up FAST (our rec center camp is $200ish/wk per kid and fills up within a week of opening registration). If I had to last minute change summer plans at this point, I would be be spending closer to $350/wk per kid for full day camp.My (19F) niece (17F) called me last night crying, asking me to pick her up. I was confused but of course I did. Turns out she was at a party that my brother (35M) had not allowed her to go to. When I picked her up she was very drunk, telling me she regretted coming and to please not tell my brother.My sister put a post up on Facebook looking for a new babysitter, then calls me this morning asking me to watch my niece tonight. She has work tomorrow, so I said I'd come get her in the morning but she wants to go out tonight because she has a date which she told me about prior but I've suddenly this morning decided not to take what she ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for expecting my wife to support my elderly parents. Asshole. My wife has a high-paying job and earns significantly more than I do. I work as a teacher and make around 40k, while she works in the private sector and makes £300-400k after tax. We split our finances equitably, with her paying 70% to my 30%.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.147K Likes, 2340 Comments. TikTok video from tyuro (@reddit_tyuro): “AITA for telling my parents they took on more than they could handle when they adopted a child from foster care? #storytime #reddit #fyp #story #redditstories #viral #AITA”. AITA for telling my parents they took on more than they could handle when they adopted a …Myself (26) & my partner (32) are child-free & wish to remain so. Both of our families know this. Recently, my partners brother & SIL passed away in a car accident leaving their son (12) & their daughter (9) behind. My partners parents have been watching them for months but they cannot do this full time as they are in their 70s & have bad health.Your parents are AHs of the 1st order. The good news is that this "speak truth to power" exercise is helping prepare you for the Real World, where employers, partners & others solicit your opinion & then criticize, emotionally abuse, or otherwise punish when you respond with unabashed honesty.Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left. Throwaway. I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive reason why I moved away. When she was a little kid, she was unbelievably disrespectful, and just downright mean. She would literally scream, yell, if no one was around she ...NTA it's your wedding. Reply. Award. ZeroZipZilchNadaNone. •. NTA. You have a valid reason to not engage with her, which obviously means not inviting her. Tell your sister that you want her (your sister) and family there and will be heartbroken if they don't attend. However, niece is not invited or allowed.AITA for dropping my niece out the window when my SIL forced be to babysit : r/AmITheAngel. Go to AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales ...Ambitious-Twist-6234. •. For a BOY, your sister and niece decided to be "mean" to your fiance's daughter and even cornered her, for a fcking BOY. And why would they think that you are RESPONSIBLE for your niece's college, you can offer to HELP, but it's NEVER YOUR OBLIGATION to send her to college.I am M23. My sister is F28, married to M30 for 6 years. My sister has been trying for a baby for about 3 years now, without success. 18 months ago she and her husband came to my parents and asked if we'd finance an IVF treatment. My parents have some savings separate from retirement and agreed to pay for it, and I even pitched in a few hundred dollars to show my support even though I didn't hAITA for favoring my nephew over my niece? Asshole. My sister is a single mom with an 8 year old daughter who is an absolute nightmare. She doesn't behave in public and throws tantrums when even the slightest thing doesn't go her way. She'll also scream, throw things and use words that no 8 year old should know.Using a throwaway because I don't want this attached to my real account. I 30f have a younger sister 27f who's currently around 6 months pregnant with her first child. Everyone is super excited for her and her husband, especially because she's the first of the 2 of us to give my parents a grandchild.My parents said they did some thinking and they are willing to let her stay under one condition: she needs to contribute and not just with household chores. She needs to start paying rent and after she gets a job, she needs to start looking for places of her own. My sister has a part time job at the university so she agreed to my parents ...AITA for wanting to charge my niece rent while living in our apartment? Me (47) and my husband 'Tom' (50) have a daughter 'Alice' (20). Alice is a full time college student, but works at a fast food place on the weekends. She received a scholarship to her college that cover most costs, and we pay the rest.When you die, your estate has to go through probate, which means that your creditors and other interested parties can make claims on assets that you planned to leave your nieces an...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Feb 15, 2024 · Feb 15, 2024 | 6:19 PM. ADVERTISING. 'AITA for leaving my niece an inheritance but not my nephew?' I was diagnosed with a terminal illness a few months ago. It’s not a matter of if, but when, and the best estimate is that I have in the neighborhood of 1-2 years. I’m dealing with it. I’ve had a good life and no regrets.For the past couple weeks, on my weekends I've had to watch my niece and nephew, while I had my friend over, so we couldn't really hang out. My sister and mother asked, more of a demand, that I watch the kids, and I just want my whole weekend to myself, so I said no, and then my mom was immediately batching and trying to guilt trip me, like loudly scoffing and loudly saying she'll take time ...The post “AITA For Telling My Son It’s Not My Fault That He [Messed] Up And He Can’t Blame Me” first appeared on Bored Panda. A parent-child argument ensues when a …My fiancé said no, she can sit with my sister and parents. At this point, I insisted and said Brynn would be flower girl. I texted my sister and asked, she agreed. My fiancé got pissed and I said it's my day too, Brynn means a great deal to me and she'll be in the wedding. My fiancée and Aubrey's mom are mad at me, saying I'm ...AITA For telling my wife her parents are not allowed to ever watch our son again. Not the A-hole. My wife and I have a 2-year old son and have been married for 4 years. Our anniversary was a month ago and we found a nice, secluded cabin on AirBnB and rented it out for a long weekend getaway.When I get upstairs, I see the door to my office is wide open, and the lights are on. When I go in to investigate, my niece is in there sitting in my chair and taking selfies with her feet on my desk. I was beyond furious, I only have one rule for guests at my house, and it's to stay out of my office. I have that rule for a reason.Not the A-hole. I (30F) have two siblings: a brother B (34) and a sister S (39). Growing up S got everything she wanted and was spoiled. My parents would make B and I share our birthday and Christmas money with her so she didn't feel left out, but she never had to share with us. She was allowed to do multiple dances classes each week while B ...AITA for moving out when my parents had another child? Video. Home. Live. Reels. Shows. Explore. More. Home. Live. Reels. Shows. Explore. AITA for moving out when my parents had another child? Like. Comment. Share. 2.3K · 1.3K comments · 273K views. Pure Drama · February 17, 2023 · Follow. AITA for moving out ...Getting down to the issue, 5 or so years back I was still living at my parents home (at 23) and my boyfriend(24) ended up moving in with me for a couple years so we could save up to get our own place. Winter break rolls around and my niece 11 at the time is spending a week with us. Normal week nothing weird.It's been almost a year since my post, so I figured I would give you all an update. I did what I planned to do and keep the shoes in the trunk of my car and my niece used them every now and then when she or I remembered they were in there. That was until my niece was baker-acted for 72 hours and my sister had to bring her a pair of socks and ...10 votes, 21 comments. 16M subscribers in the AmItheAsshole community. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to…My SIL approached me at the beginning of the summer and asked if I would let my niece (F11) help out in the bakery over the school break. She has been getting really into baking and loves watching content creators baking and was apparently just dying to be able to job shadow/help out in a bakery. I was hesitant, but said yes. And I hated it.ThrowawayAuntyAuntie. AITA for not babysitting my niece’s stepsister. Not the A-hole. I (29f) have a niece, Amy (12). My sister passed away 3 years ago and Amy stays with her dad, Rick (37), who remarried and has a stepdaughter, Kate (4). Amy gets along OK with her stepmom and Kate. My sister and I lost our parents quite a while back, so we ...I'm close to my siblings and nieces/nephews, and my niece Anne (26) is getting married soon. I've been helping out a lot with the organization and everyone is excited for it, as it's the first proper wedding within my siblings kids. Liz caught wind that we were helping Anne and will obviously attend her wedding.She says, "he only said he wanted a haircut to please you, he wanted to keep his hair long.". This was when he was between 7-12. So, I got to the point I made my son ask his mom (only after he mentioned wanting a haircut), then have the conversation with Ex Wife there, before I got his hair cut.That money will be erased from the inheritance. Since both my father and mother are incredibly poor health, (stage 4 cancer and debilitating dementia respectively) I told my niece she should stay in the closet for a while longer. If she comes out as a lesbian and they find out, she will quite literally lose out on 7 million dollars.OP's niece who he adopted and brought into his home asked to leave and go live with her Uncle. He didn't pawn her off, he obliged with her request. You are making OP out to be something he is not and making OP think he did a bad job. This niece was the one threatening and wanting to leave in order to hurt the OP.NTA. Not only are you not an asshole, you are a wonderful, kind person. You are protecting your niece and giving her a safe home, one she deserves. Because of you, she will be able to be herself in a safe environment, and not be forced to hide. She made the right call coming to you, and she'll remember that forever.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I think I might be the asshole because by refusing to go along with Amy's plan I might be contributing to worsening her relationship with Ashley and hurting Ashley in the long run.My parents were incredibly upset, as was I. My sister moved in with the guy immediately. My parents knew I was pissed but had to “support” their daughter. I went NC with Tory and LC with my parents. In 2020 when Tory’s second wedding happened, I didn’t go. Me and my dad had it out over it. My mother tried playing peacekeeper for the family.AITA For going on a pre-planned and paid for vacation after my BF's father passed away My BF (30M) and I (28F) have been dating for 4 years and have been living together for the past 18-months. Our lease is up at the end of this month and we were hoping to have purchased a house by now, but that didn't happen.My niece (20F) is the only exception. She is my brother's (43M) daughter and despite her parents showing no prejudices against the LGBTQ+ community, she doesn't make a secret of her homophobia. I don't know where her believes stem from but the day I first introduced my husband/ then boyfriend to her family, she has been very hostile ...When I get upstairs, I see the door to my office is wide open, and the lights are on. When I go in to investigate, my niece is in there sitting in my chair and taking selfies with her feet on my desk. I was beyond furious, I only have one rule for guests at my house, and it's to stay out of my office. I have that rule for a reason.5 years old would be a good age for your FSIL to teach your niece that it's not polite to wear white to someone else's wedding. It's probably beyond time someone taught your FSIL that it's not polite to try to shoehorn her kid into a nonexistent wedding party too. Reply reply. Cholera62. •.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my niece about her mom's past? Not the A-hole. My (38F) sister, Lauren (42F), had a pretty wild youth. I did too, so no judgement on my part. When Lauren was 18, she got pregnant and chose to get an abortion. This was her wake up call. She went to college, later got a great job and found her husband.My (43M) niece (14F) is being raised by my wife (40F) and I - it's a long story, having to do with my sister getting herself pregnant from a deadbeat and proving overall unfit to be a mother. Bottom line is, I see my niece as my daughter and love her just as much as my own biological children (11M/8M).At the very least your niece is getting exposure to different things at your house, even if she'd rather have fast food or takeout. Plus, if you made a separate, seemingly special, meal for her every time she visits, you'd be opening the door for your kids to eventually want the same. Reply reply. Lulu_42. •• Edited.It's not hard to understand why parents refuse vaccinations. I had a nightmare recently: in it my 10-year-old son showed me blistering sores covering his back. As I reassured him h...I told my sister her stepkids aren't the problem and that my niece needs help to deal with things. I do believe my niece needs more help than she received with her initial therapy sessions. But maybe it wasn't my place to speak up, maybe I'm not looking at …Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: For refusing to lie to my niece about getting married even if it goes against what my sister's beliefs are.There is also a big difference between letting out a 15 year old who knows the areas and a 12 year old who's not a resident in the area. Like the comments above said, OP knows their daughter, they interact with them daily, there is a trust and bond there, there is daily rules and expectations. For the niece and nephew, they don't live the same ...My brother works night shift, so these calls are coming at around 9-10PM. I feel awful saying no but I have very limited time to myself and I don't think it's my job to take care of their baby. My brother's girlfriend was adamant on having a baby even though many thought —and still think— that she was not mature enough to have a baby.Feb 15, 2024 · Feb 15, 2024 | 6:19 PM. ADVERTISING. 'AITA for leaving my niece an inheritance but not my nephew?' I was diagnosed with a terminal illness a few months ago. It’s not a matter of if, but when, and the best estimate is that I have in the neighborhood of 1-2 years. I’m dealing with it. I’ve had a good life and no regrets.NTA. Your sister openly admitted she wants you around for your money, not because she wants you and your niblings to build an actual relationship with each other. Your sister is a real piece of work. It's good to see your niece gets a positive relationship of some kind with her mother's side of the family."AITA for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted?" Accurate-Tie9003. A bit of backstory: I , 39f, am a twin. Growing up, my sister who I'll call Tanha grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.Spoiler alert your 2 year old niece's milestone will be learning the word 'NO' and using it constantly! Your sister having to spend time with her own child will head the word NO over and over like a neverending song. In fact before you leave on your well earned trip, you should teach your niece the NONONO song.Riley's parents were horrified by at the thought my parents would kick me out the second I turned eighteen and agreed to let me stay at their place as long as I graduated high school. Riley, her parents, and my boyfriend "Cole" (18m) came after midnight to help me take my belongings to their car and drive me to Riley's house.Aita for Admitting My Parents and Niece Part 2. Aita for Refusing A Relationship with My Parents Update 2. Aita for Telling My Parents They Can Ground Me for A Year. 347 …Still not the Original Poster. That's still u/Scared-Weakness-6250.. New Updates starting in March begin with ***** I removed ALL previous comments included in the last posts so I could fit this in one post AND added TLDRs. You can find the most recent BORUs here, here, and one with full comments here.. A reminder that this sub has a 7 day waiting period so the last update is 7 days old.AITA for wanting to tell my bro my niece is spoiled. Not the A-hole. So I have 2 nieces (they have different moms). One is 16 and has Down Syndrome and lives in Long Island so I don't see her much. The other is 8 and is literally at my parents house every week for at least 3 days if not more. My brother (47) has her spoiled beyond belief.AITA For Telling My Niece The Family Secret? I (35f) had two older sisters growing up "Jane" and "Kim." Kim got sick and died but not before giving birth to my niece "Laura" …AITA for leaving my niece and nephew stranded on an island because I was high? My family owns some cabins on a lake that we go to during the summer, some family members also use them to hunt during the fall. One of the cabins has been in the family for many generations and is on an island, with reliable electricity but has running water and it ...My niece is now 15 and it turns out my sister has been heavily discouraging her from asking questions about her biological father by saying she's too traumatized to talk about it, implying it's a way darker story than it is. My poor niece has just been assuming she's the biological daughter of some monster.My parents already tried going to the bank and demanding access, but thankfully, bank employees turned them away as they require my written consent for access. I'm not giving up my sister's savings unless she (sister) wishes so, and I'm not going to allow parents to track my sister's spending.Also, littles are surprisingly good at learning to pronounce "difficult" things. My name is difficult for grown adults to say but my niece could say it by 3. Drove my sister absolutely bonkers that her kid could manage something akin to "Angelica" with crystal clarity, but "Fiona" (sister's name) sounded like she was gargling peanut butter 😂AITA for refusing to help my little sister until my niece stops being vegan? Not the A-hole. TA. My sister has 4 kids Maria (16f), Liam (16), Willow (13), and Teddy (10). My sister made some really bad choices that led to her being disowned by our parents and left her very poor. Another thing to know is that she absolutely spoil Maria.Yesterday, the family was asking her if she had decided what she wanted to do with her life. She told them her dream job was the same job as my job. Everyone assumed she meant she wanted to work in marketing because that's what I'm currently doing. My niece said that's not what she wants to do and she wanted to be a trophy wife.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My action to be judged is screaming at and banning my SIL and niece from my home because they destroyed my houseplants.I posted videos of my niece and nephew misbehaving to explain why I did not want them at my birthday dinner. 2. My parents have told me that posting those videos accomplished nothing besides embarrassing my sister. And that I was being a bad family member by not trying to make compromises for my birthday dinner (such as not allowing anyone ...My sister put a post up on Facebook looking for a new babysitter, then calls me this morning asking me to watch my niece tonight. She has work tomorrow, so I said I'd come get her in the morning but she wants to go out tonight because she has a date which she told me about prior but I've suddenly this morning decided not to take what she ...Ever since then, his parents had been covering up for them because they were both students and cannot afford to raise their own child. His parents were the ones buying everything the baby needs, despite not having a stable financial status. When my cousin graduated from college he got a job as clerk in a government organization in our city.It's a tough situation, but the wishes of her siblings or anyone else doesn't really matter. She's always going to be their sister, and the "different parent" argument is lame. (If they really wanna go that route, they've had "different parents" for the past two years.) She knows who loves and cares for her.Reddit aita. justnomil reddit. r/aita update. reddit update. justnoso reddit. aita. reddit husband. reddit stories. justnoso reddit. reddit update. r/ relati...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I was an asshole for trying to play a bad joke on my niece, and making her cry in the process and hurting her feelings.My sil passed away 12 years and my brother passed away 4 years ago. They had a daughter who is 13 years old now. After my brother passed away both me and my sil's brother tried to adopt my niece but as my niece didn't have much of a relationship with her mom's family I was obviously the better option so I ended up adopting her.ADMIN MOD. AITA for taking my niece (15f) to get waxed behind her moms back? I come from a family of VERY hairy, and very fair skinned women. The hair is thick, and very dark. Hair removal has always been a common topic of discussion amongst us all throughout our lives, many of my aunts, siblings and cousin have spent tons on laser hair removal ...My house is a 14h+ flight away from the rest of my family, but since me and my partner have good paying jobs we are able to fly home for important holidays or events (we usually stay at my dad's or her parents' house). Two years ago, my niece Lexie (19F) decided to study in a University in my city, so I offered to house her so my half brother ...JacquesBN. ADMIN MOD. AITA for not giving my daughter her education fund money? Asshole. I (54M) have two children (23F and 21M) with my wife (52F). When the kids were young, my parents set up education funds for both of them, which was very generous of them. My wife and I always expected our kids to attend college and then graduate school, as ...My parents are there with my two nieces, Sally and Emma (both 16). Sally is my brother's who passed away along with his wife 2 years ago and my parents are now her guardian. Emma is my sister's who is currently working oversea for a few years. She went to stay with my parents about the same time Sally did and her mom is due back in the middle ...MOD. AITA: Keeping my kids away from my parents. Asshole. My wife (35F) and I (37M) have two sons, 3yr and 9mon. My parents were very much involved with supporting our family and babysat our first born when my wife went back to work. My brother and his wife are having their baby in a month. My brother is the golden child of our family where he ...My nieces and nephews were the only kids there, all of the neighbors are older like my parents." OOP is voted NTA. Update Post: August 17, 2023 (Almost 1 month later) First off, my folks tell me that my nieces and nephews are all good swimmers and that they use the pool all the time. The 7 year old is still a beginner but he loves the water.r/AmItheAsshole •. AITA for "making my niece cry"? My wife (28F) won't stop talking to me (39M) because yesterday I was "way too harsh" towards my niece (10F) and that I "humiliated her". For some background info, yesterday we visited my SIL and my niece had a friend over. While my wife was chatting to SIL, niece introduced me ...As the holiday season comes into full swing shopping behavior among consumers is projected to shrink with in-store purchases. This according to research by BlueVenn. More than half...MOD. Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left. Not the A-hole. Throwaway. I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive reason why I moved away. When she was a little kid, she was unbelievably disrespectful, and just downright mean. She would literally scream, yell, if ...bittercherriess. AITA for refusing to call my niece by her actual name because it's terrible. Asshole. My brother and his girlfriend had a baby girl two months ago. I didn't visit her in the hospital due to the restrictions but I quickly found out that they named her Celexa. One google search will tell you that is the name of an ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Told my niece she shouldn't expect similar treatment as other niece 2. I feel like I was a bit too harsh.NTA. Not only are you not an asshole, you are a wonderful, kind person. You are protecting your niece and giving her a safe home, one she deserves. Because of you, she will be able to be herself in a safe environment, and not be forced to hide. She made the right call coming to you, and she'll remember that forever.AITA for telling my niece that she will survive not being the center of attention for one night? I have 2 nieces Maya14 and Ellie15. Maya is an attention seeker. She will do anything to get all the attention while Ellie is so shy and quiet. Ellie has been battling cancer for a long time and we were all obviously very worried about her.My parents weren't much help either, they would give me about $100 a month for Luke, and if you have a kid then you know it's not much. Me and my grandmother were the only ones to take care of him. A year after I graduated from highschool I was kicked out with my nephew because my parents, sister, and her husband didn't want to deal with us .... OP has offered the following explanation forPersonal opinion of mine, don't get me For cutting my niece off college fund because of what she said about me. AITA? For cutting my niece off college fund because of what she said about me. I'm just going to be direct and quick. I (M35) have 2 sisters that I'm close with, I also have a niece (Leah), Leah's 16 and after my ex wife decided to split up and divorce due to inferitility ...HOWEVER, apparently, my cousin has this “very important piano recital” on my graduation day, and she absolutely wanted both my parents there along with HERS. I thought my parents would at least attend my college graduation, but nooooo. Apparently, their own niece’s piano recital is more important than their own daughter’s graduation. My ... Even if your sister were actually trying t My(32f) brother Nate (49) married his first wife and had my oldest niece Zoe (24f). Nate cheated on Zoe's mom when Zoe was 6 and they divorced. Zoe's mom took her to another city and Zoe would come to us for summer vacation. Nate moved his girlfriend in after the divorce and they had Kim (17f). I have always sent Zoe Christmas and birthday ...No. But my brother (29) has always hated them. Last week, he came over with his 7 year old daughter, uninvited. I generally don't allow children in my home, but I make an exception for my niece, who's very well-behaved for her age. Like me, she's autistic, and we both love dolls. She's allowed to hold (not play with) certain dolls under my ... AITA for no longer calling my parents &quo...
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