AITA for telling my son that we don't really have any room for him right now so he needs to live with his dad and stepmom. My ex-husband and I divorced when my son was ten. My ex had found someone new. We went for 50/50 custody but he still had to pay some child support. I went back to school at that time.If you go for your family get your ass back to that abortion clinic before confessing. It is not fair to put this choice on your husband. This choice needs to be yours. Basically if you tell him en he asks you to abort you will resent him for it. And he will resent himself for it as well. This is your fault.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.My MIL was furious when she found out we weren't having kids. We tried setting boundaries with her on this and other topics but she's stubborn. After 4 years of her behavior, we slowly cut off most contact except for family gatherings and such. She was, for the lack of a better term, third wheeling our marriage.ADMIN MOD. AITA for refusing to lend my sister money and "flaunting" my wealth? Not the A-hole. I (38f) grew up with my sister (34f) and a single mom (who passed when we were in our early twenties). We were dirt poor and every day was a constant struggle. I resolved to work hard at school and try to make something better for myself.In the end, I said they could prove they were sorry by forwarding me the $100k my degree and college expenses were, just like they did for my brothers. My mom burst into tears, my dad said I wasn't being serious and I just left. Since then, I've been getting calls from my brothers telling me I'm being immature and hurtful.So a quick little backstory. My husband (21M) and his brother (25M) have always had a great relationship. His brother moved away when he was younger and even though they're now 2 hours apart, they still regularly talk and play games online together. My husband is one of six kids and they all are still in contact and on good terms.AITA for telling my husband he needs to move on? My (F29) husband (M27) lost his mom about 4 months ago to skin cancer. Of course, he was devastated considering him and his mom were extremely close. She was a single mom and raised him all alone so their bond was incredible.My husband's ex wife is saying that I'm banning her from our home because she didn't deserve that bigger space and that we were treating Coral unfairly. But I said she did that there was nothing unfair about the situation. The Ex just hung up. Now my husband's ex in laws are bombarding him with phone calls saying he's a horrible dad.I noticed my husband constantly bringing up the inheritance money and making countless suggestions as to how I should spend it. Another thing is that he expects me pay for nearly everything the past couple of weeks. For NYE, My husband and I met up with his family at a restaurant to celebrate. It was going fine until I found out that I was ...My cousin got with her husband by him cheating on his then wife. My cousin is always shocked and upset each and every time he cheated on her. She would fuss about it on Facebook and I almost spit out my drink when her husband's ex chimed in and reminded my cousin that she got him by his cheating and kept losing him by it.A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!After we got married, I moved into his on a temporary basis while we sold mine, and then we used the money from mine and a loan on the value of his to buy a new house together - after which we sold his and used that money to pay off the loan. I don't remember ever asking to see the deed for my husband's house before I married him either. We ...My husband (38M) and I (39F) have been happily married for a little over 2 years. We own a home and do quite well for ourselves financially. He generally maintains the finances for our family. My husband's mother and sister live a few hours away and I have always felt they were very abusive towards him.It only became a bigger deal this past May. My daughter told me she had decided to do community college in her mom's home town so she could be close to her grandparents for a while, and could still follow her dreams. Ashley then brought up how some of that money could go to my stepdaughter. I told her no.My (29F) husband (43M) is completely off-grid. Or as off-grid as you can be living in a metropolitan area in a first world country in the modern era. He doesn't have a bank account and keeps all his money in cash, he doesn't have any streaming services just 1000s of dvds, vcrs, cds, vinyl and songs stored on an old ipod from 2003.My husband is a business owner (real estate developer) and he makes a lot more than I do. He also comes from money. My sister didn't like him from the get go, she even threw a tantrum (thankfully in private) in my wedding. Apparently the bride gifts he brought were tacky (more like very expensive, more than what yer husband could get her)AITA: for yelling at my husband that my cancer isn't a choice. Not the A-hole. Eversince I (female31) got diagnosed with cancer (breast cancer) months ago, My husband had to come home from his business stay that lasted for neatly 8 months. He cancelled his contract with the company and got replaced. He drives me to the hospital and takes care ...Inheritance isn't marital property. But you need to be straight up with him and tell him he isn't going to have access to it. You're gonna have to have enough spine to put your foot down. If he doesn't like it let him leave because it doesn't sound like he's contributing anything. Edit.AITA for telling my husband to stop spending so much money on his dead girlfriend's younger sister? I (28F) have been with my husband (34M) for almost a decade. We have three children (6F, 3M, 2F) together, and we are currently expecting our fourth child. He is an amazing father to our kids and I couldn't ask for a better husband.If you’re a mom you know there’s a phrase that you cringe when you hear your husband say it: ASK YOUR MOTHER. It’s one that I hear and I think... Edit...Based on your other comments: Your ex gives Emily $25 a week for lunch. You say school lunches are $5. By my math $5 x 5 days of school per week = $25. So your ex is paying only enough for her school lunches. Emily works part-time. She uses her own money to add to this to get lunches from restaurants.My daughter was born when I was 18. My husband was also 18. Yes, we were young and she was not planned so that's why the timing seems weird on that. We do have another little girl now and have recently moved into our first house! Thank you to everyone for making this something so sensational!AITA for telling my wife I’m tired of raising a kid that is not mine. I (31m) am married to my wife Amber (30f) we have a daughter Emma (7f) the problem is my wife’s best friend Jennifer (30f) has a daughter as well Harper (7f) well Harpers dad is a lazy sack of crap and refuses to do anything with his daughter.Whenever I ask my husband to talk to his sister about the money he loaned her, he would tell me to chill and change the topic immediately. When I corner him, he would tell me that it's a small amount and he won't lose his sleep over it, and ask me to drop the topic altogether. It got to a point where I felt I should step in and ask her myself ...When her brother needed help, it's I who gave him money. Why? Because they are MY in-laws, and he's MY brother-in-law. I think it's my responsibility to look after their parents. She thinks it's her responsibility to look after mine in another way. It's absolutely NOT one-sided on my part. My wife Lisa and I have been together for a while. She ...Throwaway account. So me (26f) and my husband (28m), who I'll call "Jake" for this story, have been together for 5 years and married for 3. We have recently started trying for a baby as we both felt like that was the next step in our life together, and 3 weeks ago I got a positive test back.My husband said that was fine however, my son decided not to go last minute because he wanted to just spend time with my husband. (My husband didn't know that but I did) My husband spent the day with Jane and her son even after me telling him that I wasn't happy about him going and that he should cancel - but he said he already told her he ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for 'hiding' my wealth from my fiance and his family. My fiance (28m) is a doctor, and I 28f work in finance, both earn almost equal pay. Been together for a year and a half, got engaged a month ago and are planning to have a wedding in 7 months. His family is full of doctors, while my dad owns a business, mom is a stah wife ...My husband likes adventures. But these “adventures” of his, they drive me absolutely bonkers. His well-meaning, fun-intending, pushing us all out of our far too...AITA for telling my husband he doesn't want to change, I'm (30F) and he's (30M). We don't live together and at the moment I'm staying at my families home with our 2 kids. He has a history of gambling, lying, and getting drunk. Gambling is an addiction, not that he'll admit. Drinking is only once in a while but still.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my mom's husband I'm so glad he didn't get to name me? Not the A-hole. My mom and her husband are expecting a baby together. I'm 17F and was my mom's only child until she got pregnant. Her husband has no kids. So some context on this: My name is a bit of a sore issue with my mom.This has been my mantra for years. Mental illness or a diagnosis can be a reason for behavior, but it's not an excuse. Maybe it's not always reasonable to expect a person to be able to change that behavior, but it is perfectly reasonable for someone to say "this is not behavior I'm willing to tolerate in a friend/partner" whether that behavior is just kind of annoying or straight up abusive.There was a teen in my old neighborhood who I used to pay $20 to mow my fron lawn - it was a pretty small lawn, too. I'd sometimes pay him a little extra to do stuff like mulch my trees. Sometimes I'd find something for him to do because he'd text me saying he was in need of money so are there any odd jobs he can do.AITA: for yelling at my husband that my cancer isn't a choice. Not the A-hole. Eversince I (female31) got diagnosed with cancer (breast cancer) months ago, My husband had to come home from his business stay that lasted for neatly 8 months. He cancelled his contract with the company and got replaced. He drives me to the hospital and takes care ...My ex and father to 2 of my kids is always promising them everything and rarely follows thru. It got to the point where now when their dad says something they hardly believe him and ask my husband to do it instead. My youngest doesn’t even like to talk on the phone with him for more then 5 mins and she’s only 4. But on their dads side of ...AITA for moving out when my parents asked me to pay rent. I 23 am the oldest of five siblings and I am a full time student. I also have a part time job in my field but when I complete my after degree my employer will take me on full time. I make enough from part time to pay for school and put money aside. My siblings range from 20-10.ADMIN MOD. AITA for wanting to cut my wife's spending money (mine too) to hire help. Not the A-hole. I am 29m and my wife is 28f, we have 2 kids (5m and 3m) and planning on 3rd kid. I work 70-80h on avarage and my wife is SAHM, I make really good money even for USA standards and we live in europe in a country where cost of living is way lower.True - my mom worked with autistic students for 15 years. One of her sayings to the kids is "There's being autistic and being an a-hole. You're being an a-hole." A lot of kids that came to her (she worked in a high school) had been taught to use their autism as an excuse for bad behavior.Things were finally working out between me (48F) and my husband (49M). We both had jobs, our five kids (17M, 14F, 13F, 11F, 9M) were all doing well and even the youngest two were becoming relatively independent. I had gotten my GED and landed a job at a restaurant as a server. My husband works for a nonprofit making $58k a year.A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!AITA for telling my husband his "fragile masculinity" is costing us money? Back in late 2021, my husband Craig (M46) and I (F44) welcomed our fourth child into the world. As a result, we needed to upgrade one of our cars to something larger. We decided to trade in my super reliable Toyota RAV4 for something bigger since I was the one who ...Nah you made an assumption it was wrong. Unless you specifically stated you would not have kids with him then he's not wrong to assume that's on the cards. If you were positive you were never going to have more kids I'm confused why you wouldn't have that conversation before marriage.Make sure what support you are paying now for 50/50 wage equalization is always paid by check or money order using the memo line to state, "<month> Child Support <kid1name, kid2name>." If you're paying cash, she can claim you didn't give it to her for support and then get support enforcement on you. You are NTA.If they decided to get a loan from someone with an insane interest rate without telling you, that’s on them. Your husband has already shown you he can’t be trusted to pay anyone back, not even you. That’s not a good husband. Keep your money away from him and don’t let him make you feel bad. 16.Organic-Gas-9693. AITA For telling my kids I don't care if they ever have kids. Not the A-hole. I (59) have a son (40) from when I was young and dumb. He has six kids with his wife I have two kids from my marriage. A NB child 24, and a daughter 21. They both know they have an older half brother and nieces and nephews through him but haven't ...AITA for telling my husband my ex and I traveled to 56 countries together? I (44F) am turning 45 August 3rd. Two months ago my husband of 5 years (45M) surprised me and said he booked us a 10 day vacation to Italy. We leave July 28th. My husband is a special ed middle school teacher so school is out until September.GlumMushroom9804. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my wife to return it all. Asshole. My pregnant wife (26f) and I (35m)are really struggling at the moment as I lost my job and my wife had to quit her job as she's suffering from hyperemesis gravidarum. We've used up our savings and currently are living off our credit cards but I've got a job ...My ex had a laundry list longer than my arm of diagnosed mental conditions himself, but unfortunately for me, he was also a very skilled manipulator (he learned from the best, his adoptive mother), and was very pretty himself, so my brain stopped working like it should until God had to crack me upside the head with a 2x4 so I would wake the ...AITA for telling my step-kids that the house is mine, your father left it to me and you are never getting it. I’m using step-kids to make it clearer. My husband passed away, I married him when his kids were all adults. They have never been nice to me since they see my husband replacing his late wife. Tbh it has been a shit show with them.It's my medical event. It's my body. It's my delivery/birth journey. Me, me, me, me, me. I, I, I, I, I. It's all about me—the pregnant woman and anything I say goes even though I didn't make this baby on my own and will damn well insist that the other (male) parent provide 50% of the care (emotional, financial, etc.)In the Reddit post titled, "AITA for telling my ex to stop giving my daughter lunch money" under the "Am I The A**hole" forum, the anonymous poster known only as u/daughterlunch, explained her ...AITA for telling my husband I won't cook for him again if he chose to eat his coworker's meal over mine. awards Hear me out. My husband (Jesse, 31) has been bringing home meals that his female coworker (Nelly) cook for him. Now I'm not the best cook and Jesse's made it clear but he still eats what I cook everyday.They vocalise their sneezes and it is 100% unnecessary! You do not need to activate your vocal chords when you sneeze or physically say the word 'achoo'. Tell him to stop vocalising his sneezes rather than stifle them though. As another commenter mentioned, its not healthy to stifle them.ADVERTISING. It's endearing to watch your partner get excited about something. But excitement and obsession are different things, and the line between them can feel quite intense as a bystander. In a popular post on the AITA subreddit, a woman asked if she was wrong for telling her husband she can no longer stand his hobby.Asking for permission sets a bad precedent, in case you have the resources to treat yourself he’ll feel entitled to chime in and block the purchase for whatever reason (or no reason). Make sure he doesn’t sit in those chairs. Pull your money out and build your safety nest. He does not deserve to enjoy your bonus.The thing is Husband didn’t figure out was baby #3 hates anything on his face. So you have to rock him to sleep then carefully put the oxygen on his nose. My aunt said that my husband called her the first night around midnight. His mom was already there. When I came home both my husband and his mom apologized to me. The past couple of days I ...Sounds like you are better off on your own I am sorry to hear he put his mother first, just a mummies boy I guess best to get out now or you wont know what she is up to behind your back.Many people wanted an update, so here it is. After I gave my husband space, I confronted him about his trips with my brother. He agreed to be honest with me about their relationship. As some of you suspected, Matt knew when we first met that I was Tony's sister and started dating me to get close to Tony again.After we got married, I moved into his on a temporary basis while we sold mine, and then we used the money from mine and a loan on the value of his to buy a new house together - after which we sold his and used that money to pay off the loan. I don't remember ever asking to see the deed for my husband's house before I married him either. We ...My ex wife took my kids and left me for another man when my oldest was 2 and the youngest was 6 months. I got joint custody, but she was the primary custodial parent. I got the girls every other weekend and one night a week. We split their birthdays and holidays. Fathers Day was for me and Mothers Day was for her. If it was the others weekend …So earlier today I (28F) told my husband(30M) he needs to make more money, especially if we want to start a family. We were texting at work and I was just kinda casually telling him we need to make more money (especially living in Silicon Valley). I also told him "im waiting on you..Having a kids is in your hands…1 I booked a hotel room while visiting my wife's family because they insisted I sleep on the couch instead of sharing a bed with her. 2 I might be the asshole because her family is now upset and is refusing to allow me back into the house, and this is causing problems between my wife and her parents.There was a teen in my old neighborhood who I used to pay $20 to mow my fron lawn - it was a pretty small lawn, too. I'd sometimes pay him a little extra to do stuff like mulch my trees. Sometimes I'd find something for him to do because he'd text me saying he was in need of money so are there any odd jobs he can do.I got married to my husband Cael last year and now we're expecting a girl. My parents brought up how amazing it would be for us to name our daughter Summer and my husband was 100% on board. He was pretty much agreeing before I had a chance to react. When I did talk to him he was shocked I had any doubts and was ready to go full steam …ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband to tell his mom to settle the baby. Not the A-hole. Obligotory English isn't my native language warning. I (F36) have a baby (10wks) with my husband (M36). Our son is amazing and a pretty easy baby. My son already sleeps through the night which is a godsend. However, this does require a strict nighttime ...My husband (38M) and I (39F) have been happily married for a little over 2 years. We own a home and do quite well for ourselves financially. He generally maintains the finances for our family. My husband’s mother and sister live a few hours away and I have always felt they were very abusive towards him. They speak down to him, disrespect him ...AITA for telling my sister she is an idiot if she thought her actions at her wedding wouldn't have consequences. ... but she's an absolute hypocrite for accepting his money to fund her college education. He's "family" when it suits her agenda. ... telling her mother's husband of over a decade that he won't even be seated with her at ...When me (f40) and my husband (m39) joined finances, my husband had a more stable salary and I was still studying but working part time. So we decided that we will try to live on his salary leaving mine for university fees, and other extras. He considered this as investment, hoping that I would finish my studies and get a much better salary on a full …OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: The action I took that should be judged is refusing to lend my sister money, as well as showing off my money and lifestyle too much. 2) This could make me the AH if I was wrong and cruel to not help out my sister, and if I handled everything wrong.AITA for telling my husband my ex and I traveled to 56 countries together? I (44F) am turning 45 August 3rd. Two months ago my husband of 5 years (45M) surprised me and said he booked us a 10 day vacation to Italy. We leave July 28th. My husband is a special ed middle school teacher so school is out until September.So I (28M) have been married to my wife for 4 years and we have a 2 year old son together. My older sister Ariel has 2 kids with her husband. She is my only sibling but we do not speak and haven't since my wedding 4 years ago. My wife knew I had no relationship with my sister or mother whenever we got together but now it's causing an argument.All gold material and again they are worth decent amount of money. My BIL has been with then gilfriend for 10 years and they recently got married. It was a huge deal for the family. My husband wanted to get them a decent wedding gift and tried borrowing money from friends and neighbors but got turned down.My wife was ordered to go to anger management, therapy, and parenting classes. Ava was brought back to us 3 times but every time she was brought back she'd run away or raise hell until she got to stay with her aunt. My wife's sister got full custody because of that. My wife has been trying to fix her relationship with Ava since the incident.AITA- Husband broke something of mine- I think he should pay for it. My husband got me a diecast motorbike about 6 years ago of my favourite motorbike. It was lovingly looked after on my desk at my old job and then again when I went to working from home. In January, I managed to knock it off of its shelf and I was absolutely gutted.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My husband got upset at me for saying I won't be cooking anymore for him only and will be cooking food I think it's good. He doesn't feel guilty at all and he said I am not logical. Help keep the sub engaging!I'll start at the beginning, my ex husband was a good father but a terrible husband. I divorced him when my oldest was 14 and youngest was 10. Well he ended up spiraling and the kids were exposed to that. I was blamed for ruining dad. He got better after a few years but ending up doing it again when he learned I was dating.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my “brother” if his kids go hungry that’s his problem not mine. Not the A-hole. Throwaway My English is a work in progress so just a warning. I’ll call my “brother” mike and my ex Tammy. 10 years ago my than fiancé left me at the alter (most humiliating thing I’ve ever been through) and went on our ...We were at a small house party with a few friends of mine from college and we were discussing books we've all read, when at one point one of my friends (let's call him Steve) asks Will, "So Will, what's your favorite book?" and my husband responds, "Oh, I really like To Kill A Mockingbird.". Then Steve gives him a quizzical look ...The husband has lived in their apartment for a number of years. The owners recently sold it and the new ones are moving in, so my daughter and her husband have to move. The problem is rents have gone up dramatically.. NTA. My husband is a history nerd. I point blank tell him my eyes arSep 23, 2023 · 2.7K Likes, 76 Comments. TikTok video from re AITA for telling my husband I am upset he made lunch plans with his friend the day before my c-section, didn't tell me until the last minute and didn't consider inviting me ... Me and mine love time together but also time apart doing our own thing. He knows I love being home alone (it's a thing for me and treating myself to a solo date). I ...He requested our finances to be split. Fine by me, because seeing how he blows through his money is so frusrtating. He says he has kids, commitments and has to provide but I don't think that kids would need that much money to live like the other kids. his bank account is always almost empty, Whileas mine has over 20k. My husband and I had a long talk when he came home. He knows I I love my husband, I do but that's one thing I can't do. Ride or die, I get defending him in different situations but serious ones aren't my friends. His behavior is odd these days, we have two kids we do everything for and my husband thinks he is one of the kids. My husband expects me to do so much for him, I told him he doesn't come first so ... UPDATE: AITA for kicking out my parents for never tell...
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